Hi Todd, Thanks for replying to this woman. I had just finished sending off my stock reply to such emails when I noticed yours and thought that you put our case very well. Well said! Cheers, Jack -------Original Message------- Date: 14/05/2008 4:39:13 p.m. Subject: Re: about your website Dear Ms. Buchholz, Thank you for your comments. They are truly appreciated by me. Firstly, I would like to pass on my sympathies regarding the past abuse that you endured. NO child should ever have to be put through that. I am sorry also that you cannot see how love can preclude sex. There are many kinds of love. I love my parents. I love my siblings. I love my friends. I love my nephews and nieces. Have I ever been sexual with any of them? ABSOLUTELY NOT on all counts. I do not see anyone attempting to justify sexual relations with children. As a matter of fact, we have strict rules governing our board. One of the top rules is that promotion of illegal behaviour is not allowed in any way, shape or form. This is an offence that can (and has in repeat cases) cause a member to lose his/her membership status. While I know that it is likely futile to convince you otherwise, I wish to say my peace. Here are a list of facts and myths about boylove. MYTH-- All boylovers rape or coerce children into sexual situations. FACT-- The vast majority of cases of child rape are carried out by self-indentifying straight men. Child rapists and boylovers are as mutually exclusive as straight men and straight rapists. MYTH-- Boylovers are somehow twisted mentally and are childish. FACT-- Boylovers mirror society in all ways. Some are well-adjusted and productive members of their communities, and some are less productive and for lack of better terms, mentally ill. MYTH-- Boylovers only befriend boys to groom them for sex. FACT-- Not all boylovers are sexually attracted to boys, but happen to enjoy the company of boys. In my personal case, I have three young friends. I have never, not once, engaged in any sort of sexual activity with them, nor would I ever trick, coerce, force, or groom them for sex. I have too much respect for them as the human beings that they are. MYTH-- Boylovers live in their mothers' basements and stalk children at parks, schools, and other places with high numbers of children. FACT-- There are boylovers in all walks of life-- doctors, lawyers, teachers, law enforcement, labourers, and any other imaginable occupation. MYTH-- Boylovers chose to be what they are. FACT-- We chose our attraction no more than anyone else has chosen to be straight, gay, bisexual, or transgender. The difference is that we are not allowed to express this sexuality for legal as well as moral reasons. So that said, why would would attack a group of people based upon what would be an uninformed preconception? I would never attack you based on how you were born. I don't expect you to magically become a supporter, but I would hope that you would at least do a little research before damning us all to Hell. Please refer to the following sites for further information: paedophiles, but by a Christian organisation called the Protestant Foundation for Responsible Family Development of the Netherlands. To sum up, I do not see where anyone is justifying sexual contact with boys. There are many negative stereotypes that pervade the popular media. There are also many prejudices and misconceptions that prevail in society at large. Judging by your last sentence, I might hazard a guess and suggest that you are Christian. Many boylovers are as well. As it is said in Matthew 7:1 "Judge not, lest ye be judged" as well as "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone." I hope that if anything, you have a better understanding of our point of view, and while you may not agree with us, I hope that it will at least give you some food for thought. Best wishes, Aminkor Member Support Administrator -------------------------------------------------- Sent: Wednesday, May 14, 2008 12:10 PM Subject: about your website > I would like to comment on your website. I saw it through an email and I > was curious to read some of your "literature". I don't know how to come > up with the description of how I am feeling other than to say that I think > I could vomit in my mouth. As a survivor of incestual-sexual abuse I can > not begin to understand how you can even try to justify any kind of sexual > contact with children. A statement was made on the website that it > doesn't always have to be sexual...then why would you call it "boylove"?? > I hope that your website is a tool for law iforcement to catch and > prosecute theses criminals and I also hope that they find the SOB that > strated this site. No matter how you try to legitimize what you are > doing you are still going to hell. > > -- No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.524 / Virus Database: 269.23.16/1430 - Release Date: 13/05/2008 7:31 a.m. | 
